Now about the social media. There are some crazy people out there. I had one person on facebook go ape shit since I didn’t reply for a few days. Everyone knows here that I don’t chat all the time. I try to talk to everyone that messages me with any type of substance, but most of the people are always about, “damn you’re sexy” or “I would love to lick that!” Whatever, we aren’t in the same state, let alone the same city, sometimes not even the same country. Why does everyone want to just sext, read people! Read! It is so much better!
Just as an extension to the above, I have done the whole cam to cam, and sexting and what not. I played second life as a stripper and escort. I pride myself on being able to describe a scene and do a really nice job on making people get off during a little play time. That is one of the reasons that I write! I haven’t met anyone yet on facebook or g+ that is any good at it. Most of them just want to get off and leave after trying to talk your legs open. They are too scared to go out and find someone that fits the description they are looking for in real life since they are still living under the whole view that sex is an underground thing (or at least now it is an online thing since they can hide).
There is still the stigma that sex in any other form than missionary and in the dark, under the covers in the bed in your own house after you are married is still the only way to do it and it stays there. It is getting better and there are groups out there that have enlightened a lot of people, but the stigma is still there. People need to talk more freely about it, and enjoy all types of sex. Get over the fact that you like something that your friends or community believes is taboo. Every type of fetish is accepted somewhere around the world. If you are reading this then you like sex in writing, and most of you like shemales, transvestites, transgendered people, cross dressers, etc. If that is what you like and you are looking on Facebook or G+ to get off with someone like that, then you are looking in the wrong place. Yes it can be fun, but it is never satisfying for both people, get out to the bars, the gay bars, the straight bars, the party clubs, whatever. Find what you are looking for and just have a good time, forget about the stigma, the taboo, the whatever. Just get out there and enjoy life!
Love you all!
XOXOXOXO
~-= Cin =-~